How to become a topper

Well after  a bit of research I found this is the most searched topic for students so, here comes the post how to become a topper.  See topping any exam isn't that hard what we think it to be. It requires a systematic laid down plans , strict execution of the same , dedication and most importantly a will to top.  

See you don't need to be a topper to top the exam you just need to be be yourself and unique . Don't compare yourself with toppers , you are unique and you can do anything if you put your mind and soul into it . There should be no term called "Limitation" . Remember Limitation exists only in our mind . In action we don't have any .

SMALL DAILY IMPROVEMENTS OVER TIME LEAD TO STUNNING RESULTS

The secret to success lies in hard work only , there is no shortcut which you already know . If you want to become a topper in your field , class ,industry . If you want to become more successful than your friends then stick with me to the end.
Don't believe in people who tell you there's isn't actually a secret-- they are the toppers trust me who wants you to see fail. And in large proportion toppers are quite self oriented and obsessed , introverted and selfish . Because they don't want you to know the technicality of their preparation .

I AM STRONG

I1. Toppers secret to success 

Secret of toppers not only toppers every successful people shares the thing called - HABITS
To get to the top you need to do things over and over again until those becomes a habit .
See habits aren't built overnight it needs some dedicated hours daily on a particular subject or work.
Toppers aren't built in a day. What you see in topper is that they've topped in the exam . But you can never know how much hour he/she struggled how much hours he/she dedicated how much he/she stopped partying , hanging out and  chose preparation instead.
If you're ready to put in that hours to your preparation congrats you are already a step ahead of the thousands of the mediocres around you partying , hanging out , engrossed in phones like a sloth. 

AN ADDICTION TO DISTRACTION IS THE END OF YOUR CREATIVE PRODUCTION

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Sacrifice is inevitable . Nothing comes for free which you already know . Sacrifice is the price you pay to achieve success .  You have to give up a lot of hours spent on tv , smartphones , bars , games , and all other bullshits my friend . Toppers work hard and smart. They power through pain and failure.
What you see in them is so superficial , they pretend like an average guy most of them . Also the journey will not be a cakewalk always remember . You have to accept a lot of failures and pain . But your will is what matters at the end of day . Whether you accomplish your assigned goal or not completely depends on your will .
Never ever give up . Never ever do this mistake of giving up . Remember you are a topper now and giving up doesn't matches with your personality . Whenever you feel like giving up , shutting things down , losing all the motivation just take a break of a day or two and relax completely. Or Alternatively if you are a student you may switch between subjects or something that calms you down. Essentially not games on smartphone and PC's because the sudden adrenaline surge can make you more distracted afterwards.    

Now , comes the mindset . Toppers aren't some alien stuffs they're human being as well .
Make a positive attitude towards your goal , dream of achieving it , dream of the day you will have destroyed the competition , dream of the day when your haters will have no words left .
Make a historical comeback . Take all those ranks ,positions ,grades from life which is yours , which you are destined to . I myself whenever I see a challenge ahead of me I perceive it as another opportunity to grow and become a better version of yesterday . you have to emulate the same in your journey .
 

WHERE VICTIMS SEE ADVERSITY , ACHIEVERS SEE OPPORTUNITY

Let me tell you something which nobody gonna tell you "The world works on showing things off , grind and struggle in silence , and let your success make the noise for you , let your success show who you are and not your voice".

I am ending here as long posts will be quite boring .At last , Don't just rush hold on for a second , take a deep breathe and enjoy your journey towards success . Not everyone able to do it . I bet you will have a worth remembering journey . Good luck . I hope I have been able to give you some ideas how toppers work and how you should to become a unique topper through How to become a topper.
Remember always be yourself.

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8 Reasons Why You shouldn't Fall in love before 20's??

I passed really a hard time actually to write a blog post on such topic which is the most debated topic across the social medias like Facebook , Reddit , Instagram  captioning With  "What is the right age to fall in Love? ". So I just decided Why not  to write  a post on this which gives 8 Reasons Why You shouldn't fall in love before 20's and clarify this concept and give a perspective on relationship issues occurs in teenage . Well , To be honest I would not sell you bullshits and waste your time telling you few scripted lines from the failed love stories or from a script from a failed lover but rather I will give you a different perspective which will definitely help you to think logically next time when you see someone beautiful and attractive. So stick With me.

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Q.What Is love ??
A Different view

First of all I want you to sit back and think for 2 mins before  proceeding "What according to You is Love ? How do you define Love?  How much do you think love is necessary? " Answering These Questions will reveal you in front of yourself like a crystal clear mirror. The Answer can go on like love is staring and  gazing at someones for hours on an end , Hanging out with that  special ones , Becoming the best rather best est. companion of each other , Sharing all ups and downs , Without whom every step would be difficult and bla bla bla and has no end and the definition is very much subject to change from individual to individual . 

"Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” 

~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry 

The line is very much true in this context I will tell you why . What you as a teenager thinking of love is your temporary Infatuation or it may be long term again its relative . Trust me Its just the hormones screwing up with your mind which convincing you to have a partner , to find a soulmate .But trust me before a 20-21 yrs this inner urges should be ignored . Because we as a social being has a innate want to multiply to take forward the generation. But you have to understand my friend it's no longer the ancient times .....we're civilized being now ....our competition today is with times , deadlines ....we have a dream ......we have goal ....we have aspirations to live for...we have to prove the very point of our existence right?? So how can we afford that??

By this I Don't wanna mean stop making love , Stay single Forever . Yes definitely you have the full right and freedom to love but at right time and at right age more precisely . Love then when you have finished conquering the world ...then when you finished achieving your dream....then when you have destroyed the competition ahead of you . The post can be bit lengthy but hold on your time will be worth spending here I guarantee.
See many of you can argue that you have loved at a very young age and it is still working out . But this population is rare . This post is targeted towards the young generation and today's youth waiting for love or in love. Because "Prevention is better than cure".   

THE 10 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN'T -

01 of 8 Affects Career |  

 Its is not obvious why this came to point 1. Well ... You might feel I am joking but trust me its True. You can Question me "How??" Well I have the answer. The time You will be spending with him/her remains to be unproductive and unfruitful indirectly which leaves a deep impact on your career which you are unaware of .That time if you would have gone for some skills or any other stuffs which pushes  you ,  forces you to grow your future self will be benefited . Ask yourself "Is it More important Than your dreams??" If "YES" than continue on the path no issues . If  " NO " welcome to the 1% club. Every other person is doing the same thing My friend...Don't Dare to follow them unless You want to screw your life.
I have separate post on 8 steps to success Read it here Chasing Your Goals will be never this easy

02 of 8: Takes Away Focus |

 It takes 1/5th of a second for the human brain to like someone leads to  the release of  neurotransmitters like Dopamine , Adrenaline , Serotonin and vasopressin . 
12  Different areas of Brain gets stimulated when looking or thinking about the loved one . These sudden Dopamine surge instantly boosts the mood and make us more addicted to continue to think about our beloved one rather fantasize about them which definitely sufficient for puzzling up the mind and lose of focus with which you started your day . 
I hope many of you can relate this situation right?? Well , several times I too had a similar feelings but what kept me from all these bullshits is the inner urge to destroy my goals and achieve my dreams.

References: BBC.CO

03 of 8: A Continuous Source of Distraction |

 We as a living beings are too much selfish and self centered .Yes You heard it right "Selfish" its in our gene code we can't help it . Accept the fact that your loved ones are no exception . Life is a business my friend and most of us would like to invest somewhere where we can get best return.
People will come and go , cross your life momentarily but the best one will stay forever . The choice of the best is the sole reason behind the dysfunctionality of  relationship . The maturity to be prudent to be able to calculate future steps comes only after 20 yrs on average. The intelligence to see through the hypocrisy of both the gender comes only at 20 through a series of observation , inference and experience , definitely not before that. And that relationship after 20 is most likely to stay forever until death.   

04 of 8: Depression and health Issues |

How much  love sustains (in the long-term) depends on the level of trust, compatibility and understanding b/w lovers and maturity, patience and perseverance to work things out. The more you indulge in it the more you will start to care about the other person  and a genuine care and concern to look after the comfort of other person more than You care about Yours. 
In simple words we get attached psychologically ..And give our control in the hand of some stranger (beloved ones). Now every ups and downs of them will certainly have a deep impact on our own lives. People are so impulsive these days that at the first sight of any discomfort , incompatibility , trouble they left because they have choices . So this sudden detachment is unacceptable to the mind and causes intense pain and which is quite difficult to endure at tender ages and guys becomes victim of addictions. And if you let the pain engulf you it can change the whole hormonal balance  . But which mayn't be the case if you are above 20 or 21 you will have a strong mindset then and can handle the stress more carefully.

05 of 8:Emotional  Insecurity |

 This is such an issue I think no relationship is free from.Simply explained, emotional insecurity refers to the instability of a person’s emotional state. Possible triggers of this perceived threats or vulnerability.
if You see technically  any insecurity is basically a fear...And in this case fear of losing the special one.It’s worry about jeopardizing the status of a relationship. I hope you may often find yourself checking your partner's  phone or using phone spying tools right? You'll not miss an opportunity to check her social media accounts if got one.So basically you are insecure my friend. I will not elaborate other symptoms as this post's intention is to make you aware of the happenings.

Chasing Your Goals Will Be Never this Easy

THE 8 MOST PRACTICAL STEPS TOWARD YOUR GOALS

Well..Its literally never a trivial task to give a complete overview of some realistic steps to achieve our goals . There are myriad of articles on these topic out there in Google . But I don't know how effective they are. I shall give you a step by step approach for making it happen Trust me on this it will worth reading it. So stick with me to the end.

Since the Era of Stone age to today i.e the 20 th century the battle remained the same only the battlefields have changed.

Earlier we fought for survival against nature , survival to exist , survival to continue the human race against the ferocious species of ancient times . We got way far civilized today . Today our survival is against the almighty time. The one who can control time rather schedule his/her life in accordance with it can achieve any thing created by the humans out there.

So I am not gonna Discuss about Time or anything of that sort here today rather I will Discuss on chasing Our dreams and how to achieve our goals by 8 most practical steps considering all the distractions , competition , obstacles , challenges we encounter daily. Lets Begin-

1.Set your Dream and Goals: 
Dream so high that at times you will feel uncomfortable to tell it to the average candidates. By setting Your dream that high you already destroyed 50% of the competitors around you who likes to only blather about their dream but unwilling to make a single move for it. Don't be that guy. Cut off connections from them as far as you can for once . Be purely selfish for once and your future will reward you back I promise you.

2. The underlying Route: 

Any  master planner or architect what he needs to do at first  ?? yes ..You guessed it Right to make a "A PLAN ..A ROUTE ..A DIRECTION". A plan or any direction  to execute tasks. Always Make sure the path you have chosen for yourself , the plan you mapped for yourself is right . The path to success  is not difficult or too complicated as it seems it is less difficult and more of like a maze full of confusions.  So having a Direction is must before sailing out so that you don't get lost in the midway . This requires bit of research too rather I must say Expert Advice in your field. Ask them who already achieved for what you are aspiring for..seek out help from them instead of seeking help from the one in the same journey because he/she also mayn't have clue you wanted.

3.Understanding the Sub-Goals:
Its a very crucial step for everybody who want to send a ripple among the crowd . Understanding the sub goals is often not that easy. It requires time to find the amount of work needed , the amount of hours you need to sacrifice , the amount of pressure you have to undertake , the deadlines , the materials you need , the resources you must have and all other stuffs which need a deep research and its a time consuming process. But Brother when set you yourself up for something extraordinary you have to do something extraordinary which will make closer to your goals.

4.Achieving Bit By Bit:
After You have gathered a clear picture of your goals , try to achieve those sub-goals . See at this stage nobody gonna help you out because they are busy building their ones , no authority will be there to put you under supervision. Only You yourself can help you. Set a smaller version of task everyday and try to achieve it at the end of the day. And if  you cant don't forget there is always a tommorow make sure you don't do the same in the following days and you finish your self assigned task . Because every drop counts when to fill a ocean.

5. Combating Distractions And Procrastination Like never Before:
 I will have a separate post on this for now let me sum this up in few lines do follow this blog for regular updates. Its not a denying fact that everybody out there has distractions. Infact the term distraction is very relative and varies from person to person . In your Journey distractions will be there I admit and you know this will be the hardest thing to combat. It only depends on you whether you feed your Focus or you feed your distractions. Accept your distractions and know that they will be there until your death . Focus will only come when you will start to love your job.
                                   
                                                       Procrastination another name for a "silent-killer". The  tendency to   procrastinate   naturally  comes  to  human  whenever  they  have  options  . You will be not procrastinating on the very day before your finals Right?? So why do you do the same before ?? . Just forget that you have choices to not getting some job done . Think You have only  today to live and your last chance to prove yourself. Come on get back to work.

6. Never lose the momentum:
You may have some positive feelings or a dopamine surge technically , if you achieve something great in your work .. Or got some recognition. But never forget this is the stage where most of the people gets tired and they leave halfway because they get satisfied with those trivial momentary recognition. That's why I told you to dream High so that you never stop working on your goals. Don't fall on the trap of these momentary joy always remember anything you are doing , somebody somewhere doing better than you and have that capability to replace you someday. This is the thought that should ignite the fire in you to incessantly grow , work , upgrading yourself.


7. Understand Your competition and competitors:
Any system have continuous evaluation scheme or assessment to put you on check. See this as an god gifted opportunity to showcase your talent and prove your capabilities . Dont take them for granted.

                                           Another factor which play a key role is getting to know your who your competitors are , what capabilities they have and what skill set they posses. This requires a bit of socialising with them. Ask them About their journey , skills , talents , previously where they used to be . Not everyone will answer you at once but you need to stick with them for letting them know who you are and at the same time getting to know them.

8.Never Give Up:
This is the most underrated thing and everyone just ignores and take for granted.

Always remember giving up shouldn't be an option , don't even dare to think of giving up beacause it will again give you  choices and you will make less efforts all of a sudden. Whenever You feel like giving up ..Just take a break , breath deeply , relax ,listen to some good music  And say to Yourself
 "I did not come to this world To Be Average and Mediocre..I Will make it happen " and get back to work. Think of those faces who will not take a back criticizing you if you fail . That should be enough reasons for you to work brother . I repeat don't ever give up Brother try until your last breathe  atleast  in the worst case you will be proud of yourself  that you didn't give up in the halfway.





At last I will sum this article up by saying  " Overnight success is still a myth don't fall prey to this".
I hope that  I was able to give You some practical ways to achieve your goals through this.

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